Now I am not saying it is right to talk about people behind their back, but it happens.. and when you hear stories about how evil you are it really bites! Especially when you have done nothing wrong (there are few perfect people, I guess I am lucky to be one of them!)
It amazes me, baffles really.. that two people, who were present at the exact same argument, can have completely different versions of the events that occurred.
Obviously we need to be careful with what we say in anger, because those words can come back and bite us in the butt.. and they have jaws of steel! But what about the words that you never said, but someone says you said? .... I feel like a tween, he said that she said that he, she, it said.....
I feel like a hypocrite trying to live a Christian life, when people are judging me on things I NEVER said or did?
I am not saying that I am innocent on all accounts, but seriously.... I feel like I have to defend my every move!! And some moves I never made!! I also love how if I try to mend the situation nobody talks about that!
In case you haven't noticed it's a ranting day... but I do have a bit of advice, seeing as how I am an expert on the subject.
Keep your mouth shut! Always. Don't speak. Ever. People may think your crazy, but at least they can't accuse you of saying things you didn't!! Lol... I guess if I did that I would still probably be accused of giving someone the evil eye or something!
Anyway, I guess I need to let it go in one ear and out the other and not care what others think of me, but just what I know to be true about my self... but seriously, I am human and those darn "wise" old sayings stink!
From now on I am keeping my lips zipped! Anyone who knows me knows that is a COMPLETE LIE! I can't keep my mouth closed on any subject, even duct tape wouldn't work on me!
I guess I will just continue to blog any thought that enters my mind.. which is keeping my mouth closed, my fingers are doing the talking now!!!
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